#Familydynamics

Marriage, often romanticized, is not the idyllic partnership it’s made out to be. Whether you marry for love, faith, parental advice, or choose a relationship, the potential harm a marriage can inflict on the individuals involved—and by extension, their families and future children—can be unimaginable.

Contrary to popular belief, marriage is not merely a construct that can be built and sustained with daily effort. Nor is it a drug that creates an obsessive dependency based on feelings. Instead, marriage involves two personalities who, by chance, find compatibility and are open to engaging in a normal relationship.

But how can this compatibility be assessed? While no definitive method exists, one thing is certain: you can usually sense when someone is not compatible with you. It’s crucial to listen to this intuition and be honest with the other person about it.

Attempting to build a family, relationship, or partnership based on therapy for incompatibility often leads to failure. A family thrives on emotional compatibility; everything else can be constructed and reconstructed around this foundation. However, when emotional compatibility is absent, and manipulation, gaslighting, or emotional destruction occur, it leaves lasting damage. These actions create tensions and grudges that can damage the relationship and affect everyone directly or indirectly.

Children, in particular, do not deserve the fallout of a poorly chosen partnership. If you realize you’ve made a wrong choice in your personal relationship, whether aware or unaware at the time, you bear responsibility for it.

So, how can you rectify this situation, stop the ongoing harm, and heal the damages created? Here are some steps to consider:

Acknowledge the Problem: Recognize and admit that the relationship is not working due to fundamental incompatibility.
Communicate Honestly: Have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and the issues at hand.
Seek Professional Help: Consider counseling or therapy to understand the dynamics of your relationship and to navigate the complexities of separation, if necessary.
Prioritize Emotional Health: Focus on your emotional well-being and that of your children. Creating a stable and loving environment is crucial.
Plan for the Future: If separation is the best option, plan for it thoughtfully. Ensure that both parties can move forward healthily and that children are supported emotionally and financially.

Ultimately, while marriage can be a beautiful union, it requires GENUINE emotional compatibility.

If this is lacking, it’s essential to address the situation honestly and constructively, prioritizing the well-being of all involved.

Every single time I say “the narcissist,” my mind goes to my mom’s death. Left to die, refusing her care, he turned his back on her, slept in the same bed, and left her to die. By morning, she was dead!

This isn’t just a narcissist or psychopath; it’s more than that — it’s a killer!

And in every single narcissistic psychopath, there’s a killer ready to destroy anyone who refuses to do things “HIS/HER WAY.”

You can’t fight it because you’re ALWAYS alone, and the psychopaths are TOGETHER! Don’t even try to talk to them about GOD; they don’t believe in it. God is only for them when it’s part of their way. Don’t talk to them about HELL because they don’t believe in that either!

Don’t talk to them about your pain and suffering because they don’t believe in it!

They don’t know right from wrong, and as soon as wrong serves their interests, it’s perfectly right!

Highly mentally sick, if they can’t use you, they will destroy you and everything you are.

And then the story!

Why did the Ukrainian war start? What if my “fiction” story is a TRUE story?

If you want to stop a war, you MUST know why and how the war started! More than a long history are those facts!

I keep asking myself, why doesn’t RUSSIA make these facts public? Talking about their closed-door negotiations with “the Nazi groups” who played them!

A dream of a Nazi Ukrainian group is to liberate Ukraine. But if you are a psychopathic Nazi narcissist, you will play your way toward it, destroying your “enemy”!

It’s like how my mom died! Assured that she was loved. Assured that she was safe!

I am not part of any services, no affiliation, and no support for any power involved.

I just know how a narcissist thinks and works “HIS WAY.”

Why doesn’t the narcissist want ANYTHING to belong to him at death time?

Because EVERYTHING he had didn’t belong to him but to someone else, from whom HE STOLE.

Today I told him! “You are nothing; my mom was everything! You gaslighted, destroyed her, alienated her, messed with her life and mind, secluded her, abused her, TURNED HER AGAINST people who loved her, to have ultimate control over her and KILL HER!”

He laughed, “I was everything; your mom was nothing without me!”

She would be ALIVE without you!

Then I realized what happened with RUSSIA and the NAZIS.

The Nazis alienated Russia from its supporters. After, I believe there was an alliance behind closed doors. And after Russia realized it was being played in these dirty Nazi games, it attacked UKRAINE.

They didn’t attack UKRAINE; they attacked the Nazis from UKRAINE.

My mom lost her strength and was bed-bound when she realized my father’s games.

He cut off all her support networks and controlled all communication, including calls and people who entered her room. The same happened with Russia. Nazis did it!

But Russia was competent to fight against it! They attacked Ukraine! But they didn’t attack it. They attacked THE NAZIS who were playing games in and with Ukraine.

When my mom called me to save her, and I started fighting with my NAZI father, he started to beat me. And called for support all his flying monkeys. In front of my children’s eyes!

Putin fights a Nazi narcissist group in UKRAINE, supported by its flying monkeys.

Ukraine is not alone! Russia is!

Because as strange as it looks, THE NARCISSISTIC NAZI is hidden, allied with “mom Russia support.”

My mom died not because of my Nazi narcissist father but because she TURNED AGAINST HER, or cut all her support. Except for me!

But far away and poor, I couldn’t save her!

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Now the fight is back! One of my mom’s “dirty” flying monkeys, the strongest one even if it let mom die, now she wants MOST of the “world” power. And she attacked the NAZI narcissist and the other flying monkeys.

I can’t bring my mom back! They killed her together! But what I can do is support this powerful flying monkey to present to the world what a NARCISSIST NAZI could do to people.

I am destroyed! Like life, career, and human being. They killed my mom, destroyed my family, took over my life, controlled me, messed with me. No life but A GOD! But what I can do is to make CLEAR from where the mess started and why.

And how a dirty NAZI NARCISSIST destroyed a world, a family, good genuine people.

Money? I don’t take dirty money coming from bloody hands.

If I could live free, I would make my honest money. But I can’t.

The war can be stopped. If Russia has the intelligence and courage to tell the world THE TRUE STORY about the psychopathic narcissist Nazi group in UKRAINE and put herself in the vulnerable position of why they attacked UKRAINE, peace will come.

Because RUSSIA wants peace, the power flying monkey wants to take over controlling the world power, and the psychopathic Nazi narcissist MUST give up on his power games. The poles of power will be switched in the world.